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Post by drakkenfan on Feb 14, 2007 21:28:53 GMT -5
If you have to ask other people whether or not you should marry someone, that is a sign that it's too soon. When it is the right moment and right person to marry, you will know without a doubt, and not need to ask anyone.
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Post by Ashfangirl20 on Feb 14, 2007 21:31:41 GMT -5
If you have to ask other people whether or not you should marry someone, that is a sign that it's too soon. When it is the right moment and right person to marry, you will know without a doubt, and not need to ask anyone. Hmm I just needed opinions on whether or not I should marry right now or wait. Guess that should have been a better question
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Post by nabusan on Feb 14, 2007 21:34:54 GMT -5
lol yeah, true that. It sounds like you're letting members on a forum devoted to a cartoon character dictate your future, especially on something as important as marriage.
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Post by drakkenfan on Feb 14, 2007 21:36:21 GMT -5
If you have to ask other people whether or not you should marry someone, that is a sign that it's too soon. When it is the right moment and right person to marry, you will know without a doubt, and not need to ask anyone. Hmm I just needed opinions on whether or not I should marry right now or wait. Guess that should have been a better question Oh.. the question at the top of the poll said "Should I accept?"
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ninjaofninja15
Yellow Trout
Could you guys knock that off for a second?
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Post by ninjaofninja15 on Feb 14, 2007 21:36:30 GMT -5
This is something no one can help you with. If you love this man, and you want to spend the rest of your life with him. Go for it. Dance the dance of life.
*and woosh*
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Post by Duke Random Guy ZT on Feb 14, 2007 21:37:20 GMT -5
lol yeah, true that. It sounds like you're letting members on a forum devoted to a cartoon character dictate your future, especially on something as important as marraige. Don't listen to him, with his "logic" and his "reason"! Listen to us! We would never lead you astray.
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Post by Ashfangirl20 on Feb 14, 2007 21:38:03 GMT -5
Hmm I just needed opinions on whether or not I should marry right now or wait. Guess that should have been a better question Oh.. the question at the top of the poll said "Should I accept?" True, it did say that...Ha I guess I should have added a better title.
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Post by dieter on Feb 14, 2007 21:46:52 GMT -5
lol yeah, true that. It sounds like you're letting members on a forum devoted to a cartoon character dictate your future, especially on something as important as marraige. Don't listen to him, with his "logic" and his "reason"! Listen to us! We would never lead you astray. Hahahahaha!!!!! "Logic" and "reason"...Bah! Only foolish democracies need those...and they shall be crushed under the steel-toed boots of Fabelvania!
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Post by Duke Random Guy ZT on Feb 14, 2007 21:52:18 GMT -5
I think you mean the Principality of Freedom and Hope at the moment. Remember you haven't betrayed me yet?
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Post by dieter on Feb 14, 2007 22:04:19 GMT -5
I think you mean the Principality of Freedom and Hope at the moment. Remember you haven't betrayed me yet? Oh, yeah...sorry about that. You know, I've been thinking, what if after I betrayed you, I conveniently allowed you to "escape," after which time you took up residence in a foreign nation, and began raising a force of partisans. Then, after I've severely weekend Fabelvania, you would come rushing in with your force, leaving only my most elite and loyal soldiers to defend me. It would be a glorious fight to the death, worthy of the sagas. Of course, you would still be captured and executed, but your death would just about coincide with my being strung up by the enraged citizens. What say you, Kamerad?
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Post by Duke Random Guy ZT on Feb 14, 2007 22:06:31 GMT -5
Ohhhh, I like the glorious battle that will be talked about for ages angle. You've got yourself a deal.
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Post by xsasweet on Feb 14, 2007 22:13:54 GMT -5
We must have pics but I'd probably wait, tbh.
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Post by dieter on Feb 14, 2007 22:14:35 GMT -5
Ohhhh, I like the glorious battle that will be talked about for ages angle. You've got yourself a deal. Yes, and the best part is, we'll both lose in the end. So, in a way, it's almost like we both win...when you consider the amount of written works and possibly even movies which will pop up about us. They will say that we were both consumed by the same drive for power, and that it wound up destroying us. I think we could even stage some dramatic finish, where I shake your hand one last time, before I personally execute you. Then, just as you hit the floor, the bunker doors burst open, and I am dragged outside, stripped naked, beaten to a bloody pulp, and strung up next to a gas station.
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Post by Duke Random Guy ZT on Feb 14, 2007 22:17:35 GMT -5
Or we could share a cup of coffee, which you have poisoned (just mine of course), and when I drink from my cup I can look at you wild eye and say something like "I should of known" or "I regret nothing" or maybe "You bastard". Then of course when my body hits they come in and all that.
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Post by johnnys on Feb 14, 2007 23:02:31 GMT -5
Congratulations, dpc! However, I'm not putting in a vote as getting married is a huge decision, and you should be able to decide for yourself on whether you're ready or not.
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Post by kimfan101 on Feb 14, 2007 23:09:07 GMT -5
AWWWWW! Congradulations! May happiness be brought to both of you! ;D
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Post by Rose Hunts on Feb 15, 2007 0:24:33 GMT -5
You LUCKYGIRL!!! I wish I even had a BF.. *perks up when Ned gives me an eye* I'm fine..
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Post by Ot@ru on Feb 15, 2007 4:55:23 GMT -5
Go for it D...
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Post by rd on Feb 15, 2007 5:29:07 GMT -5
This IS a rather difficult question to answer over a message board, DPC... My first instinct as a Father and Grandfather is to immediately say no, not yet, you're far too young and not at a stable part of your life to make such a drastic decision. Second, it's not that we don't want to wish you happiness and all the best things in life, but on the other hand, we don't want you to become a divorce statistic, or even worse, a single mother in what can be a cold, cruel world. Third, I can't really qualify myself as a person that would give you that kind of advice. While I, and our fellow members DO know OF you, we really don't know each other that well. We are, after all, just lines of type on a computer monitor to each other. Seek advice from close friends and family. Speak to a clergy person if you're so inclined. Just don't make such a life altering commitment on a spur of the moment emotion.
Brook and I did just that, and we are of a VERY few of the lucky survivors that married fast and very young. Sad, but true.
The main reason our marriage has survived 30+ years is I married with my heart AND my head... and I still to this day have a copy of our wedding vows always close to me.
I wish you all the best, Sweetie! Be Happy!
Grandpa RD
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Post by mrpotty on Feb 15, 2007 6:37:21 GMT -5
Hey, if you love him and you are sure that you wanna spend the rest of your life just with him, say yes! If you are not sure (and no offense: If you have to put a poll on a messageboard, you probably are not ready), tell him "not yet". If he loves you he will understand, because a 'no' to a proposal is not a 'no' to your relationship. Just be nice when you tell him Oh, and congrats
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