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Dumped
May 24, 2007 20:31:18 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 24, 2007 20:31:18 GMT -5
Okay, so...after 1 year, 5 months, and 23 days with my boyfriend....he dumped me today. Yeah...but not even because he doesn't love me anymore. His aunt and uncle keep calling him worthless, and he's given up on trying to prove them wrong. He didn't even directly say it...he handed me back the necklace and ring I bought him, and then tried to leave. I kept trying to drag him back, but as he outweighs me by about 50 pounds or more, I didn't make much headway. We were both crying, I made a bit of a scene (we were outside the mall), and...I don't know what to do. I'm very sad, and I want him back. At the same time, it's not the first time we've broken up....so, ultimately, I've decided 48 hours. For two more days, I'll try to get him back. If he doesn't go for it...then I guess it's just time for me to move on.
Sorry for this. I needed to get it out of my system.
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 20:43:02 GMT -5
Post by ArtsandCrafts on May 24, 2007 20:43:02 GMT -5
Oh my God. That's horrible.
I don't think that he needs to abandon you simply because his aunt and uncle don't like him. Although, It's none of my business, so I'll say no more.
Some good advice: Chocolate is good for mending a broken heart.
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 20:43:20 GMT -5
Post by Scoutcraft Piratess on May 24, 2007 20:43:20 GMT -5
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry, babe! Break-ups are never fun!
I'm going for the internet ice cream...
Vent all you want.
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 20:54:08 GMT -5
Post by Rognik on May 24, 2007 20:54:08 GMT -5
So, does this mean you're single now?
Wow, all the girls suddenly have... very pointy things aimed at my vital organs. I guess it's a bit too soon to joke about such things.
Well, here's to hoping that he's just being a drama king. And if he's not, there ARE other fish in the sea. Hopefully, the next one won't want to let you go. *pause* But I also hope he won't cling to you. Clinging is just bad.
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 21:34:45 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 24, 2007 21:34:45 GMT -5
I have made fudge. .....fudge helps all. ...Except I'm trying to maintain my current weight so that my costumes will fit next month at anime con. So, the fudge goes in a baggy with me to school to my 2nd period class and our party. That way I don't eat it all.
I still want to be with him, but I've got a 48 hour time limit. If during that time, he just won't come back to me or still doesn't want to come back...I'm moving on. I'm a senior, and I barely have any direction in other fields of my life. I don't need a bunch of melodrama.
Thanks, guys. *huggles all of you*
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 22:28:33 GMT -5
Post by Baroque on May 24, 2007 22:28:33 GMT -5
You want to move on after...2 days?
Okay, nevertheless, I'm sorry to hear that. I mean, just before a few days you posted a picture of the both of you in the What do you look like thread and now...
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Dumped
May 24, 2007 22:42:15 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 24, 2007 22:42:15 GMT -5
I know 2 days doesn't seem fair, but this isn't the first time we've broken up. It's like...sixth or seventh, I think. And I won't actually be over him for a long time, of course. I'm hoping not to have to move on...he has to talk to me sometime...I still have one of his shirts, one of his DVDs, and he's going to the anime con as well. Plus he has my Yu-gi-oh! cards (don't laugh) and one of my DVDs.
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Dumped
May 25, 2007 3:12:24 GMT -5
Post by nabusan on May 25, 2007 3:12:24 GMT -5
He's a bit ch. You can do better. He's not worthy of your magnificence.
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Dumped
May 25, 2007 3:55:22 GMT -5
Post by Sarah on May 25, 2007 3:55:22 GMT -5
Nabu, harsh I like it. As for advice, boys at this (or roughly 15-20) aren't really reliable with love. Not to say girls are faultless. But, he's clearly believing it's the right thing. I just hope you get what YOU want. Not what anyone else thinks you need. You seem like an awesome girl, so - yes. Feel better. Break-ups are never fun <3
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Dumped
May 25, 2007 21:34:00 GMT -5
Post by Baroque on May 25, 2007 21:34:00 GMT -5
I know 2 days doesn't seem fair, but this isn't the first time we've broken up. It's like...sixth or seventh, I think. And I won't actually be over him for a long time, of course. I'm hoping not to have to move on...he has to talk to me sometime...I still have one of his shirts, one of his DVDs, and he's going to the anime con as well. Plus he has my Yu-gi-oh! cards (don't laugh) and one of my DVDs. Good...and I thought you'd be "over him" after those two days. But say, why don't you talk to him? Yes, he broke up but you still want to be with him...ah, who am I to say that.
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 17:22:00 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 26, 2007 17:22:00 GMT -5
Actually...we're back. Already. And it feels weird this time. I still want to be with him, but he's acting...mopey. He's usually...well, for lack of better comparison, he's a lot like Ron. He's a bit hyperactive, but very sweet. And he said something that he didn't take back after we got back together (although I didn't ask if he meant it or not)....things feel weird. I'm going to talk to him about it when he gets home from work and see if it's a general attitude towards life or...I dunno.
Thanks again, though. All of you.
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 17:26:58 GMT -5
Post by ArtsandCrafts on May 26, 2007 17:26:58 GMT -5
You're welcome.
He's probably just a little shaken up, he will most likely snap out of it soon.
Good luck.
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 18:56:30 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 26, 2007 18:56:30 GMT -5
Thanks again. *tackle hugs you all*
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 22:08:18 GMT -5
Post by trombe on May 26, 2007 22:08:18 GMT -5
Just remember that no matter how horrible your're feeling, it will get better. You'll get over him, or he'll take you back, or you'll find someone new, someone better. Just remember one of the unwritten rules of women: "You don't actually need a man to be happy". Ironic quote considering you share the name of the goddess of the hunt. But anyways. Yes. Breakups are always nasty little things. Quiet or loud the outcome is the same. One or two hearts are broken in the process. Hopefully thats enough time for both of you to clear your heads about the whole thing. Sometimes there really is no right or wrong way in a relationship. Best to ride the flow. I offer you my sympathy. Have a cookie. Its on me.
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 22:34:14 GMT -5
Post by Levelord on May 26, 2007 22:34:14 GMT -5
He's a bit ch. You can do better. He's not worthy of your magnificence. You say it as it is Nabu!
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Dumped
May 26, 2007 22:40:18 GMT -5
Post by kpfan5678 on May 26, 2007 22:40:18 GMT -5
i feel sorry for you, destinyinevitable.
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Dumped
May 27, 2007 1:26:24 GMT -5
Post by destinyinevitable on May 27, 2007 1:26:24 GMT -5
Err....*confuseded*...We got back together. And not only are things back to normal now (including his "No, I don't want you to go yet! Five more minutes!" thing on the phone...), but we just got two of our old friends who were ignoring us back. So...the past few hours of today have been great. Still, thanks again to everybody. You guys are real sweeties.
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Dumped
May 28, 2007 10:34:49 GMT -5
Post by Demonicus on May 28, 2007 10:34:49 GMT -5
Loves like a rollercoaster, it has its up times and down times.
I think that was kinda cheesy... >_<
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xswimmer44
Yellow Trout
the best time of year
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Dumped
May 28, 2007 13:46:25 GMT -5
Post by xswimmer44 on May 28, 2007 13:46:25 GMT -5
I'm so sorry about that. Well, just remeber, if it's ment to be, then destney will find a way to make it all better. And somtimes people say stuff in the moment that they don't mean, it's just in the moment. It happens to me a lot. Mabe he just needs this time to get everything figured out. I hope you feel better soon!
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Dumped
May 28, 2007 22:34:22 GMT -5
Post by Scoutcraft Piratess on May 28, 2007 22:34:22 GMT -5
Err....*confuseded*...We got back together. And not only are things back to normal now (including his "No, I don't want you to go yet! Five more minutes!" thing on the phone...), but we just got two of our old friends who were ignoring us back. So...the past few hours of today have been great. Still, thanks again to everybody. You guys are real sweeties. I hope this fight was healthy for you two. Fights can be good.
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