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Sept 16, 2006 11:40:55 GMT -5
Post by RC Williams♥Bonnie on Sept 16, 2006 11:40:55 GMT -5
Such a shame... really. I honestly believe that it is because of people not giving the "Bonnie's" of the world a chance to change that they continue to be like that. However, I do agree that honesty is always the best policy, and RC I agree with what you said. She hasn't given you any reason to trust her, however if she does give you reason to trust her, but you still don't like her (aka you still yell at each other) and she asks again it's only fair that you keep up with the honesty and tell her yes you trust her. And just a suggestion, find a "Bonnie" that you know, and try striking up a conversation with them outside of the normal element you typically see them in... I promise you will be surprised at what you find. Like in RC's case, it could be that the job makes her a royal B**** because she can't stand it, and no it's not right to take it out on her co-workers but some people don't know how to divert their stress until a later more appropriate time. It's not the job to me... I love my job... It's just the people that works there... And I tried talking to her in the streets and it's the same results... And she says that I have a f*cked up attitude...
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Sept 16, 2006 12:24:34 GMT -5
Post by cloudmonet on Sept 16, 2006 12:24:34 GMT -5
The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other?
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For the record, I have a good deal of empathy for both, but this isn't enough to excuse bad behavior.
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Sept 16, 2006 14:40:46 GMT -5
Post by Ashley Benlove on Sept 16, 2006 14:40:46 GMT -5
Amen to what Lonestarr357 said upthread. Every word of it. Why do we "haters" hate her? It's simple, really. She's opportunistic, cruel, and self centered. She's rarely been seen doing or saying anything on-screen that wasn't mean or b$#%hy. The best thing that can be said about her is that she's not two-faced; her meanness is front and center and you know exactly what she thinks. Even when she tries to hide it to get what she wants (as in "And the Mole-Rat Will be CGI"), it seeps through. I can't sugar-coat how I feel about Bon-Bon. I hate Bonnie. Hate. Her. I've never made my contempt for her a secret. Her actions specifically in "Ron Millionaire" squashed what little respect I did have and has earned my scorn with her constant and persistant meaness. Everyone has their moments of b@$%hiness, that's true, but Bonnie's been that way since she first appeared onscreen. The girl even has a b@#$hface on when she's happy. All evidence up to this point (and the official confirmation that she will continue to behave this way next season) suggest that she may not get the redemption you're hoping for. The reaction people get from Bonnie doesn't come out of a vaccum. It's the things she's actually said and done on the show and her pattern of consistant "mean girl" behavior that turns people off. Now some people may say that the only reason I am defending her is because she is "hot"... That actually played no part in my thought process about this. I just think that we should try to see the best in others (even if they are just an animated object). I would love to believe that, but if Bon-Bon looked like Justine Flanner or DNAmy, there would be no threads like this. No one would be pairing her up with anyone or making excuses for her lousy behavior. She would be that fat and/or ugly b@#$h that no one can stand. It's really nice that you can forgive Bonnie for the way she is; it really is. It seems to me that if you're a Bonnie apologist, you're either really big-hearted or really naive. I'm going to go with big-hearted, though. I say that with all sincerity. I understand your desire to see something good in her and see her be redeemed in the end. I actually like that Bonnie is mean from a storytelling POV; she causes needed conflict in Kim's civilian life. Most normal people seem to like Kim and at least one normal person in her life has to dislike her and cause grief. Bonnie's like J.R. Ewing ( Dallas), in a way. She's just one of those characters "haters" love to hate. Those of us who severely dislike hate Bonnie have perfectly valid reasons for how we feel and can back them up with solid evidence. Just try to understand that and we can all get along just fine. Bon-Bon wouldn't care if she has "haters", anyway. She'd just say we're jealous of her. Very nicely written, Gracie. And I can see why J.R. was killed now. And yet, I've never seen Dallas..
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Sept 16, 2006 15:51:12 GMT -5
Post by ruthiestoppable on Sept 16, 2006 15:51:12 GMT -5
I don't hate Bonnie, I use to. But come on, mean girls give the show some spice!!!!
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Sept 16, 2006 17:46:55 GMT -5
Post by Ashley Benlove on Sept 16, 2006 17:46:55 GMT -5
Yes, they do, but I still hate Bonnie, and Kimron completely articulated why.
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Sept 17, 2006 2:29:46 GMT -5
Post by Whisper from the Shadows on Sept 17, 2006 2:29:46 GMT -5
The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other? ----------- For the record, I have a good deal of empathy for both, but this isn't enough to excuse bad behavior. Ooh, good point cloudmonet, I'd never really thought about that comparison. But now that you do... Hey everyone, read ^^^ and give it a good long thought.
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Sept 17, 2006 9:22:31 GMT -5
Post by Ashley Benlove on Sept 17, 2006 9:22:31 GMT -5
Shego's awesome though.
Man, that's as good as I can go to explain why I like Shego over Bonnie.
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Sept 17, 2006 15:08:04 GMT -5
Post by Whisper from the Shadows on Sept 17, 2006 15:08:04 GMT -5
Shego's awesome though. Man, that's as good as I can go to explain why I like Shego over Bonnie. I'll agree, Shego is awesome (see avatar and sig), but when push comes to shove, she's a LOT like Bonnie. And if you really want to get down to it, Bonnie's a lot like Kim too. Now, before you light the torches and grab the pitchforks, hear me out. Both are driven to be "the best", the whole Hilander "there can be only one" mentality. They drive each other to push themselves harder than they normally would (do you think Kim would have to try as hard at cheerleading if she didn't have to compete with Bonnie, and vice versa?). Both see the other as inferior, yet continue to compete against because they feel their supperiority threatened (basic psychology on this one). Now, go chew on that for a while... shoo.
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Sept 17, 2006 19:02:34 GMT -5
Post by lonestarr357 on Sept 17, 2006 19:02:34 GMT -5
The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other? ----------- For the record, I have a good deal of empathy for both, but this isn't enough to excuse bad behavior. I'm not really a die-hard Shego fan, but I do like her better. It's sort of a 'lesser of two evils' thing.
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Sept 18, 2006 13:02:42 GMT -5
Post by Whisper from the Shadows on Sept 18, 2006 13:02:42 GMT -5
The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other? ----------- For the record, I have a good deal of empathy for both, but this isn't enough to excuse bad behavior. I'm not really a die-hard Shego fan, but I do like her better. It's sort of a 'lesser of two evils' thing. I'm not gonna hound you for liking Shego more (see sig/avatar), but it's funny that you said 'lesser of two evils' because when you really think about it Shego literally fights them and could potentially hurt (or Heaven forbid, kill) them, while Bonnie is just HS evil. Like I said, I'm not gonna hold it against you because well... I like Shego more as well, it's just funny i thought.
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Mar 25, 2007 18:29:14 GMT -5
Post by kolton9988 on Mar 25, 2007 18:29:14 GMT -5
the one i hate is YORI!!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont like bonnie ether
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Mar 25, 2007 20:32:06 GMT -5
Post by rela on Mar 25, 2007 20:32:06 GMT -5
Meh I don't mind her at times, hmm I seem to like her more than Kim some times{ Doges tommatows from Kim fans} Luckily I hate tomatoes. I'm allergic to tomatoes, so I won't be throwing any. I don't by any means hate Bonnie. I personally have an indifferent attitude toward her. It's obvious that she's mean to Kim because she's jealous and insecure, which calls for pity, rather than hatred. I've seen high school evil (I go to a school with 2500 people, it's there) and Bonnie's "evil" is like a mosquito bite against their shark bite. Bonnie will no doubt mellow out during college.
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Mar 25, 2007 21:05:31 GMT -5
Post by JuPMod on Mar 25, 2007 21:05:31 GMT -5
I don't hate Bonnie. Just I see her as a bully. No more, no less given her attitude toward Kim and Ron. Given her homelife (seen in "Bonding"), I don't blame her for her attitude. I think indeed she will mellow out once she's in college far away from home. Least she will not have her nagging sisters or her mother around to dictate her life.
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Mar 25, 2007 21:11:07 GMT -5
Post by hannah on Mar 25, 2007 21:11:07 GMT -5
i don't hate bonnie. i don't think i've ever hated her. she is totally needed in the show to make the show more interesting. i would be bored out of my mind if EVERYONE loved kim and ron (because really, there are few that make fun of ron besides her). really, bonnie is just really mean to kim and ron. if you look at how she treats everyone else, she's can be seen as a pretty decent person (though i'm not sure how much of her kindness is real...).
on a side note, she should go into acting, with her skills to change moods and characters so quickly. she's so good!
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Mar 25, 2007 22:08:42 GMT -5
Post by Ot@ru on Mar 25, 2007 22:08:42 GMT -5
Bonnie a royal pain in the arse...
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Mar 25, 2007 22:41:42 GMT -5
Post by Scoutcraft Piratess on Mar 25, 2007 22:41:42 GMT -5
Bonnie has shown an impressive amount of depth for a cartoon character. I wuv her.
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Mar 26, 2007 15:30:46 GMT -5
Post by VRWC on Mar 26, 2007 15:30:46 GMT -5
Bonnie always gets far too little credit for how much she's grown over four seasons of the series. Granted some of her earlier appearances are one dimensional but from Sink or Swim on we see she's capable of acknowledging even Ron, who she claims to have utter disdain for, as accomplishing something noteworthy. Not only does she spice the series up with her Bonnieness but she's an animated reminder about how we can always be better than we were. And she's Bonnie, what's not to love?
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Apr 8, 2007 0:40:24 GMT -5
Post by Sarah Ashley T. on Apr 8, 2007 0:40:24 GMT -5
In real life, .. if she honestly messed with me..... OH WATCH OUT. Haha. Honestly, .. there's this sl*tty girl at my school who is EXACTLY like Bonnie, so evertime I see Bonnie, .. I think of that girl, and how much of a b*tch she is, and how much all the guys adore her, because.. well, they simply want to have sex with her. It's disgusts me. So, obviously, I can't hate a cartoon character.. haha. She just disgusts me.. but, she's perfect for the show, cause there are SO DEF those kind of girls in HS. Geezus. The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other? Uhmmm... because Shego has character, Shego's funner, and... well, simply, she's not a sl*t. Haha. That was easy to answer.
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Jun 20, 2007 11:21:59 GMT -5
Post by FarAwayGirl on Jun 20, 2007 11:21:59 GMT -5
I hate bratty girls!!! that's why I never played with Bratz dolls! I don't like dealing with them and they're snobs! However in one, ONLY ONE exception I kindof...like....Bonnie. Yeah she's a punk but she's cute, she's not so bratty it's annoying. She has just enough BRAT to make you like Kim when she talks back to bonnie. And I am a Kirsten Storms fan!
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Jun 20, 2007 11:27:27 GMT -5
Post by DP on Jun 20, 2007 11:27:27 GMT -5
The real cosmic question isn't perhaps why so many people hate Bonnie (she's beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect) and adore Shego (who's also beautiful but self-centered, nasty, arrogant, and despises Kim for being Miss Perfect). Okay, Shego has nicer hair, robs top secret labs, and does that glowy thing with her hands, but seriously— How many of you Bonnie haters are die-hard Shego fans, and if so why do you like one but not the other? ----------- For the record, I have a good deal of empathy for both, but this isn't enough to excuse bad behavior. That's a good observation. I think Shego has more depth than Bonnie, at least from what we've seen, and that's why she's more popular, but still, good observation. I don't hate Bonnie. I think she's funny, and she's different than the stereotypical high school rival/mean girl in many ways.
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