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Post by nabusan on Aug 22, 2007 13:47:00 GMT -5
So guys kissing without tongue would be considered not gay?!
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Post by hannah on Aug 22, 2007 13:55:03 GMT -5
bi?
perhaps.
i don't know. my brother holds hands, hugs, and all that jazz with guys, but he's really eccentric...
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Post by Ashley Benlove on Aug 22, 2007 14:39:45 GMT -5
I love your brother, hannah.
Wait, which one?
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Post by hannah on Aug 22, 2007 14:42:10 GMT -5
johnny. the one with the curly hair.
yeah, he's awesome...
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Post by Ashley Benlove on Aug 22, 2007 14:44:25 GMT -5
Yeah, I love him.
I must meet your brothers. I dunno why I like them so much.
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Post by hannah on Aug 22, 2007 14:48:24 GMT -5
haha, i think everyone needs to experience my brothers at some point in their life. it's a necessity.
but yeah, i think he does the hand holding thing just to make guys nervous. that, and the guys he hangs out with are just like him... so basically it's a team-up to see what kind of reactions they'll get from others.
conclusion: not always gay.
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Post by Naked Mole Rat on Aug 23, 2007 4:44:24 GMT -5
Sarah Ashley T. puts me to shame ^^ Didn't even notice the PG-13 tag ;D I notice it, but I don't think about ratings. Know what you mean .... by the time you are in your mid 30's, they havent applied for so long you just forget ... but a young kitten like you should still notice!! ha ha |
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Post by Loser7 on Aug 23, 2007 6:02:42 GMT -5
It's refreshing to here that there are some guys out there that are comfortable holding hands, even if joking, like your brothers Hannah. They sound awesome.
I would usually assume that most guys that hold hands were gay simply cos straight guys never seem to be secure with being playful with each other like that, lol.
Although, it's nice when you find someone who is secure enough to do so :D
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Post by Ashley Benlove on Aug 23, 2007 7:32:04 GMT -5
I notice it, but I don't think about ratings. Know what you mean .... by the time you are in your mid 30's, they havent applied for so long you just forget ... but a young kitten like you should still notice!! ha ha Eh, I don't see it as a big deal. Most really good movies are PG-13 and above (like Terminator and Titanic and the Alien films (save for Resurrection)). Kitten? Now I feel like meowing and annoying somebody. |
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Post by JuPMod on Aug 23, 2007 8:24:54 GMT -5
If I see two adults walking down the street and they're holding hands, I always immediately think they are perhaps a couple. It's a social sterotype I grew up with during my generation. (shrug)
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Post by Naked Mole Rat on Aug 23, 2007 8:32:02 GMT -5
Sorry dear .. didnt mean to offend ..... I use a lot of such terms of endearment ... kitten, pumpkin, babycakes ..... You only get them if I like you!  |
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Post by nabusan on Aug 23, 2007 10:48:52 GMT -5
lol, I seem to use 'munchkin' a lot ;D Though, I use a substitute when talking to a 'little person' friend of mine ;D
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Post by Naked Mole Rat on Aug 23, 2007 10:54:01 GMT -5
lol, I seem to use 'munchkin' a lot ;D Though, I use a substitute when talking to a 'little person' friend of mine ;D And there is my daily mention of The Wizard of OZ. Its getting really freaky..... every day of my life it crops up at least once if not more .... |
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Post by nabusan on Aug 23, 2007 11:32:06 GMT -5
*Twilight Zone theme tune plays*
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Post by Ashley Benlove on Aug 23, 2007 14:20:55 GMT -5
Sorry dear .. didnt mean to offend ..... I use a lot of such terms of endearment ... kitten, pumpkin, babycakes ..... You only get them if I like you! What I mean by that is that that's what I precieve cats and kittens to do. When they want attention, they annoy you and they meow. Come to think of it, my dachsie does that, except he barks. But, yeah, I call little kids, midget (surprised no one calls me that at just five feet). But, I call little people exactly that. That's the most appropriate. |
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Post by Sarah Ashley T. on Aug 24, 2007 20:21:52 GMT -5
........Why is the subject of holding hands PG-13?  Because on this forum, apparently anything that deals with homosexuality needs to have a PG-13 label. Silly, but true. That's what The Man said, anyway. ;D Who's the dumb "MAN" who made that rule? Lol. It just kind of offends me a little, considering I have so many gay friends, to see that even the most harmless subject of two people, in love, holding hands, .. if they're GAY, means that the subject should be PG-13. WTF. Every topic on this forum that has anything to do with talking about homosexuals, has been labeled PG-13, for that one reason..... it's about homosexuals  I think that's dumb. They're just like the rest of us. Edit: Wait... I can't modify the title. Hmmm... I didn't know that. |
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Post by The Yetimonster on Aug 24, 2007 20:24:56 GMT -5
One odd quirk of my personality is that I don't really care for holding hands, period. I don't know what my deal is, but I don't even really like holding a girlfriend's hand that much.
You'll never see me holding a dude's hand.
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Post by tlionheart78 on Aug 24, 2007 20:41:04 GMT -5
"How come girls can say, 'I'm going to go to brunch with my girlfriend', and no one assumes anything, but when I say, 'My boyfriend and I are going shopping for fanny packs', everyone thinks I'm a gay? - thats right, A gay." -Zach Galifianakis
In all seriousness, though, where I'm from, it's more common to see a man and a woman holding hands while it's much more rare to see that happening with people of the same sex. I'm not so sure why that would is, maybe a society thing, I don't know.
Part of my upbringing included the fact that if you ever see anyone holding hands that they either knew each other intimately or were in a relationship. So, I guess it's just a matter of perspective here on what you see and how you were raised.
Personally, I wouldn't care either way when it comes to the issue of people holding hands. Be it male/female, male/male, or female/female, if whatever couple decides to hold hands in public, that's fine with me. I just wish that people wouldn't be so quick to judge because not everything is as you see it.
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Post by Sarah Ashley T. on Aug 24, 2007 20:58:32 GMT -5
In all seriousness, though, where I'm from, it's more common to see a man and a woman holding hands while it's much more rare to see that happening with people of the same sex. I'm not so sure why that would is, maybe a society thing, I don't know. Weeelll... that's because some of them are afraid to, and be judged, ..... because people these days have so much prejudice, and a lot of that is against homosexual relationships.  |
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Post by Ashley Benlove on Aug 25, 2007 8:48:02 GMT -5
In all seriousness, though, where I'm from, it's more common to see a man and a woman holding hands while it's much more rare to see that happening with people of the same sex. I'm not so sure why that would is, maybe a society thing, I don't know. Weeelll... that's because some of them are afraid to, and be judged, ..... because people these days have so much prejudice, and a lot of that is against homosexual relationships. I agree. It's so messed up that some people use certain books as their reasoning. Or because they make them uncomfortable. I just really wonder how many of the homophobes are related to or are the same people who were very racist in the mid-1900s. I just think all prejudice is the same and it's really sad.  |
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I think that's dumb. They're just like the rest of us. 
