Post by taechunsa on Oct 11, 2005 22:39:12 GMT -5
I was commenting on a fanfiction by Artificial Moose earlier and the issue of premarital sex between Kim and Ron was raised.
I was of the opinion that after the events of the story transpired (read College Days to find out what happened) that Kim and Ron would be idiots to wait to have sexual relations if Kim wanted Ron to be her first (this is assuming that they didn’t just get married for whatever reason).
Moose’s comments were to the effect of he decided that they would wait. And commented on couples that he had known who had and hadn’t waited.
So my question is, “If it is a while before they are married, will Kim and Ron wait until after they are married to have sexual relations?”
My answer is no.
We can look at this two ways.
First, the villains have some moral values and will not rape their victims. Killing is fine, but rape is not acceptable.
Even in this case I still think that Kim and Ron would not wait. What Kim and Ron do is very dangerous. Every time that they go on a mission there is a very real chance that one of them may not return. With this standing very large in their minds and knowing that at any time the could be killed, I think that they would seek comfort with each other at as many opportunities as they can.
I look at it this way. A number of years back I was involved in an accident that came within a couple of inches (literally) of killing me. It was at this time that we seriously started talking about having children. My wife told me that while it would always devastate her if I were to die, that if we had children she would feel better because a part of me would live on in our children.
Now this isn’t exactly the same thing, but as a couple that love each other any near death experience would drive home to them that they do not have all of the time in the world. Of course anyone could die at any time, but Kim and Ron actively put themselves in harms way regularly and I feel that this intimacy with death and loss would make them seek to experience as much with each other as soon as possible.
The second scenario is that the villains would not only be willing to kill Kim and Ron, but also to rape them.
While everything that I said above still holds true, I think that there is also another urgency added to the situation. If Kim wants Ron to be her first then every time that they go out on a mission there is a very real possibility that she may have that opportunity removed from her.
Either way, I do not think that Kim and Ron will wait long to get married, and that they will wait even less time to become sexually intimate.
So, what does everyone else think?
I was of the opinion that after the events of the story transpired (read College Days to find out what happened) that Kim and Ron would be idiots to wait to have sexual relations if Kim wanted Ron to be her first (this is assuming that they didn’t just get married for whatever reason).
Moose’s comments were to the effect of he decided that they would wait. And commented on couples that he had known who had and hadn’t waited.
So my question is, “If it is a while before they are married, will Kim and Ron wait until after they are married to have sexual relations?”
My answer is no.
We can look at this two ways.
First, the villains have some moral values and will not rape their victims. Killing is fine, but rape is not acceptable.
Even in this case I still think that Kim and Ron would not wait. What Kim and Ron do is very dangerous. Every time that they go on a mission there is a very real chance that one of them may not return. With this standing very large in their minds and knowing that at any time the could be killed, I think that they would seek comfort with each other at as many opportunities as they can.
I look at it this way. A number of years back I was involved in an accident that came within a couple of inches (literally) of killing me. It was at this time that we seriously started talking about having children. My wife told me that while it would always devastate her if I were to die, that if we had children she would feel better because a part of me would live on in our children.
Now this isn’t exactly the same thing, but as a couple that love each other any near death experience would drive home to them that they do not have all of the time in the world. Of course anyone could die at any time, but Kim and Ron actively put themselves in harms way regularly and I feel that this intimacy with death and loss would make them seek to experience as much with each other as soon as possible.
The second scenario is that the villains would not only be willing to kill Kim and Ron, but also to rape them.
While everything that I said above still holds true, I think that there is also another urgency added to the situation. If Kim wants Ron to be her first then every time that they go out on a mission there is a very real possibility that she may have that opportunity removed from her.
Either way, I do not think that Kim and Ron will wait long to get married, and that they will wait even less time to become sexually intimate.
So, what does everyone else think?